Are you willing to let go of your worries when it comes to all things love? Because when we stop trying to control everything magic happens; the stars align and sparks fly!
So what does September have in store for the lovers…and lusters? Let’s find out.
Takeaway: This fall, allow yourself to fall for yourself first!
You must have heard that if you cannot love yourself first, you cannot expect others to love you either? Well, what they don’t tell you is that the moment you start loving yourself, the moment you recognise your own worth, you will realise you deserve better than those who can only be there for you when you feel whole! Know your worth. Whether you are single or committed, know that you deserve to be cherished for all that you are, right in this moment. And see everything else just fall into place. This fall, allow yourself to fall for yourself first!
Takeaway: Look for the answers and you shall find them!
Sometimes everything that seems shiny may not be all that it appears to be. What would you do if you could keep your ego and your rose-tinted glasses aside for a moment, and listen, truly listen to your intuition? Were they being belligerent or was that a miscommunication? Was that little gesture a sign that they are your soulmate or are they just really smooth with their words? Did you talk about being exclusive or did they just carry on with the assumption that you weren’t with a slight hint of deliberate deception in their stride? Listen to your intuition or let the Moon whisper the secret truths into your ears at night. Look for the answers and you shall find them!
Takeaway: Pick yourself up and begin again!
When Adele sang “Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead” she whispered deep wisdom from the wild right into our hearts. We all knew it to be true even when we hadn’t experienced it for ourselves yet. But it comes, it comes for us all at some point or another. No, no Gemini, we do not give up when change comes knocking on our doors. We open the windows and look at the rainbows instead. They only come after the rain. And they come with sunshine along the way. So pick yourself up and begin again!
Takeaway: How were you ever going to find out if fairytales could be real!?
You know sometimes when we are busy looking for love everywhere else, magic walks right into our lives from places we were least expecting it from. And it sweeps us off our feet! Sometimes the magic was hidden deep within ourselves all along. But we kept pushing it down, lest the whole world saw it and told us our magic was too good to be true. Did you let them trick you into believing them? Well, then how were you ever going to find out if fairytales could be real!? You at least owe yourself to find out for yourself!
Takeaway: Expect someone whose cup is brimming over with love to sing in synergy with yours!
Forget what everyone says. You are allowed to be in touch with your emotions. And you are allowed to expect someone whose cup is brimming over with love and compassion to sing in synergy with yours! Being able to find your person who is willing to support you and be there for you even when you are going through tough times is everything it is made out to be. And when this kind of love presents to you, you accept it with gratitude and loads of love in return. So hold on, hold on tight.
Takeaway: Embrace the sparks when they happen.
When you were a child and wanted something, did you ever hesitate to accept it when it was offered to you? No! So why do it now? Work with that inner child of yours and be open to the new things coming into your life to spice things up. You cannot complain about being single and then turn away from the mingle and jingle part of it all. Let loose! Embrace the sparks when they happen and take a leap of faith. We will see what happens next. But there really is nothing to lose here, right?
Takeaway: You are willing to stop letting the past get in the way.
Being able to let it bare takes enormous strength as well as softness my dear Librans! You have been through the dark, you have seen the light and you know you’ll be just alright. You are ready to drop all your baggage. You have tended to them, instead of ignoring them. Your wounds, you allowed them to heal before you decided to forge ahead. And you are here now! This September, you are willing to stop letting the past get in the way, and oh, what joy is that!
Takeaway: Savour every moment.
Pssst… Allow us to let you in on a secret: whirlwind romances may sound great but the slow-and-steady does win the race sometimes! You do not always need to rush into love. It is not a scheduled train, plane, or bus that will leave the station if you take a few minutes to admire the scenery on the way. Sometimes love can walk into our lives with so much surety, so much stability from the get go that it allows us to savour every moment. Getting to know each other is underrated! Don’t be the fool that tries to rush love like this.
Takeaway: So are you going to go with the flow?
Oooh someone’s all ready to explore the options! Online dating, midnight trysts on vacations, shaking things up when distance threatens to get in the way – the options abound. You have your feet firmly on the ground, and your eyes wandering on the horizon. Routines are fine. But it could also be all fun and games, and who knows, there could also be potential for something to shift your life permanently. So are you going to go with the flow? Or are you going to let someone else’s interference get in the way of your happiness? You decide this fall fellow Saggie babies!
Takeaway: Are you stuck in the past? Or is there truly a chance at reconciliation!?
Love doesn’t always follow a single path. Sometimes ex lovers do get back together and live happily ever after. There is such a thing as meeting the right one at the wrong time, after all. But that is not always the case. Sometimes people leave us and we leave them behind for a reason. We see them for who they are but then we go our separate ways, and nostalgia hits and all reason goes out the window. What is your situation? Are you stuck in the past? Or is there truly a chance at reconciliation!?
Takeaway: You do your thing and love waits another day.
When you are busy conjuring all your ambitions into reality, sometimes love can take a backseat. And that is perfectly okay. You are bumbling with fertile energy right now. You still want love, you still need to be adored and it would be great if it came from a partner who prioritises the same thing as you. And nothing better when you have found someone who is that in-sync with you. So what happens when their needs do not align with yours? You give each other time, space, respect and continue focusing on what needs to be the centre of attention at this very moment. You do your thing and love waits another day.
Takeaway: You have sacrificed a lot to get here.
Calm can come before a storm, but it can appear even after one. This thing you are feeling right now is called inner peace. You have sacrificed a lot to get here. Now you are biding your time, voluntarily, to figure out your next moves. You have been indulging in the sweet sweet nectar called self-love and you are having a gala time all by yourself. Things were baffling there for a second, sometimes that’s how it goes with abrupt endings. But you are not in any hurry to move to the next destination. So just hang in there for now. You will know when you will be ready to move again.