Haven’t you heard of the saying the heart wants what the heart wants. So what’s with all the hesitation, my loves? Get ready to honour your desires this month. In November, we are healing from the past wounds and letting in the light.
Want to know what else is in store? Read on to find out what November has to offer the lovers…and lusters!
Takeaway: The month of November is calling for stillness.
Sometimes we keep repeating patterns we know no longer serve us. There is a sense of comfort even in the discomfort because it is familiar. But it is time you take a step back and re-evaluate where you are heading. The month of November is calling for stillness, harness calm in it, and learn to grow from your discomfort. If you’ve tried and tried to make a certain thing work and it still doesn’t, then it was not meant for you. Bigger and better things are, so hang in there for them to happen.
Takeaway: Drop. The. Baggage!
Drop. The. Baggage! Literally as well as metaphorically! How are you going to thrive in life if you are constantly insisting on carrying the weight of everything that went wrong in the past? In order to move on ahead, you need to communicate, with your partner, with your own self, and get the message loud and clear. Sometimes we need tools to dismantle the blockages in our lives. What you need right now is to go into the store and walk out with exactly what you need to free yourself of the weight of your past.
Takeaway: What are you hiding? What are you not healing?
Why are all your walls up so high Gemini? What are you hiding? What are you not healing? In order to let love in you need to step aside and let the sun in through the cracks. If things have been rocky, if you have been feeling on edge, then this is your sign. Do what you need to do to relax and find the keys to the doors in your heart you’ve been keeping shut. Forget about loving another, learn to love yourself again this November.
Takeaway: Bandage up the wounds in your heart and stop letting the poetry of your soul leak out.
Sometimes keeping the doors to the past open is an invitation for more heartache and trouble. You can honour the good that was and still move on ahead to greener days. Let yourself feel the hurt. Let yourself grieve what could have been, what couldn’t be, what ended too harshly. And bandage up the wounds in your heart and stop letting the poetry of your soul leak out. Remember the rainbows come out after the stormiest rain and hail. The sun will be coming out eventually.
Takeaway: Work with the magic you are being offered right now!
People do not always set out to leave you. Things start with sparks flying, and along the way some cannot keep it alive and go seeking elsewhere. That is the way of life for sure, but that is not the only way of life my Leo bébés! If they leave, they indeed were never yours. But the one who refuses to leave will surprise you in ways you may have never imagined before. So work with the magic you are being offered right now and see where it leads without the worry of what tomorrow will bring!
Takeaway: “What you seek is seeking you!” But are you ready to welcome in what you seek?
“What you seek is seeking you!” The desire to look for this chemistry, this love, this passion was ignited in you by the Universe for a reason. But, you may not bump into each other in the smelly subway to work or even the grocery run at the end of the week. A mind shift, not a physical one, is needed. Are you ready to welcome in what you seek? Or are you just going to continue toying with the idea of it while it passes you by because you were too busy daydreaming?
Takeaway: Who said you need to adhere to a restrictive and binary idea of love and partnerships?
No you don’t need a significant other to survive, satisfy yourself (carnally speaking), or even be happy. But who said you need to adhere to this restrictive and binary idea of love and partnerships Libra? Well, the wonderful thing about love is, you can be whoever you want, be with whoever you want, and refuse labels and boxes that make you feel wary! Make up your own rules for all society cares! As long as you find a mate (or even mates) who are into it just as enthusiastically as you, eff the rest!
Takeaway: There is nothing wrong in being idealistic in love.
The idea of ‘twin flames’ and ‘karmic partners’ may confuse or even scare you (because they do sound rather volatile), but as we always say in the Cosmic Sea Witch headquarters: labels are for losers anyway! You are a cosmic being, you have a lot of love to give and you deserve it back as well. If you feel like your cup has been running dry because all you do is pour out, then now is the time to replenish. There is nothing wrong in being idealistic in love, just learn to honour your boundaries.
Takeaway: You guys might be the bomb in the sheets, but what about when out on the streets?
A healthy dose of pragmatism is important in the matters of love. But romantic partnerships do not necessarily thrive on pragmatism alone. Mutual respect and common interests are but a part and parcel of relationships, a very vital part indeed, but definitely not the whole of it. The same goes for sexual compatibility. You guys might be the bomb in the sheets, but what about when out on the streets? Are you ready to find out what more is awaiting you? Or is this going to be enough?
Takeaway: The ‘beggars can’t be choosers’ mentality doesn’t apply to relationships or even situationships!
The ‘beggars can’t be choosers’ mentality only applies when your basic needs are concerned. Not for relationships or even situationships. If no one has reminded of that lately, then let us do the honours! On the contrary, we often find ourselves feeling this way, when the reality is far from it. Perhaps all you need is to open up and ask your partner (or that one you’ve been crushing on forever), if you can lean on them for whatever it is you may need right now. They might just surprise you.
Takeaway: Relationships are all about teamwork. So are you lifting each other up?
Relationships are all about teamwork, not one person getting to feel victorious all the time. So are you lifting each other up? Are you communicating what your needs are and having them met? This is not restricted to your sex lives, but it is important there as well! When it comes to love, “when I win, we both win” doesn’t always fit right. You have the potential as well as the intention. No need to shout it from the rooftops, as long as everyone involved feels valued, seen, and heard.
Takeaway: As we close a cycle, so we begin another.
As we close a cycle, so we begin another. Sometimes all we need is to shake off the dust and head on out seeking new love and new adventure. With this attitude, life can be fun, until you realise you can no longer tell when the party has ended and everyone has left for the night. That may not be something to worry about if you can tell apart the beginnings of good things from sweet nothings. As long as you remain in control of the candies you pop, it’s all good.